Hills would be your issue if towing a driftboard and familiy in car, that's a lot of strain on the drivetrain for the little 4 banger that's in my wife's 2020 Forester. We've had a half dozen Subaru's in our family, and if buying used, stay away from the 2011 - 2013's which have a serious piston issue.
Check out pre 2020 6 cyl Santa Fe or Sorento (use the same drivetrains). More power, higher tow rating, minor diff in MPG, bit more space
Check out pre 2020 6 cyl Santa Fe or Sorento (use the same drivetrains). More power, higher tow rating, minor diff in MPG, bit more space